When you walk away from being a part of dysfunctional abusive family relationships or any type of toxic relationship, you are making a statement that you deserve more in your relationships than to be abused, neglected, exploited, discarded, and thrown aside.  

A major loud and clear red flag that you should stop ignoring is the terrible feelings and the bad headaches, you are having when you are around a person that you know should not be a part of your life.